Most things sort themselves out...


Hi Reader,

I've been in the middle of some very stressful house renovation work this last couple of weeks. There's been a dispute over some of the work, I've been threatened by the building company... It's been all kinds of high-stress.

In a moment when I felt exhausted and 'done in' by it all earlier this week, my partner Meg texted me the simple line "this too shall pass". It's a line I've texted others in similar moments, but of course when you're in the middle of things like that, you don't believe it's true for what you're going through. You don't believe there is a "through" to get through at all, because all you see is that you're "in".

And it reminded me of a thing a friend said a while back: "you know.. Most things in life... They sort themselves out".

And it's true. When shitty stuff happens, we can easily tie ourselves in knots. We can get stressed. We can overreact and feel mad with people or annoyed with stuff.

But then here we are, an hour later, or a day later, or a week later, or a year later...and it all sorted itself out.

This too shall pass. Don't forget.

Have a great week,

Graham

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